THE COMMON DRUG
Everyone has his/her own idea about what is a relationship ,pretty
sure my definition and what it entails or how to come about one is totally
different from yours, but back to it again relationship is a beautiful thing
and I know you agree right?
Relationships have been a common thing in universities to a
point being single is considered as ‘outdated’ that is one of the reasons that
make students engage in relationship that isn’t worth and by this I meant- a
majority are in toxic relationships some know some don’t and narrowing it, a
toxic relationship can be mentally not necessarily physically.
You ask why there are always cases of toxic relationships,
yet everyone has a clue on what a healthy relationship looks like and those in
it are not ready to move out from them, they say love is blind Is it? Am one
person who believes a mature love is not quick to shitty decisions that campus
students do day in day out.
So, I have been observing to find out what happens to
relationships that makes people conclude that one is a toxic relationship and
guess what I found it’s all about communication. Campus students lack this ‘virtue’
as being in a relationship in campus has become a ‘community based ‘leading to unseriousness
in students as they term themselves as lovers.
It becomes an interesting thing to hear the stories on love
issues in schools, but then again most painful thing to hear the rising deaths
of students as result of love-gone sour. How many of us are always asking
themselves when will this madness stop? Yet at times we want to accept reality
that it will not stop.
The day campus students will get that stabbing or attacking
your partner is waste of time is the day ‘salvation’ will come.
In the past relationships we have heard cases of deaths
among'st students which some of the example are a girl being killed by her ex-boyfriend,
a boy stabbed a girlfriend to death in a love triangle which left many in shock!
And many more and all these is a result of a toxic relationship.
Well what I know is if there is a red flag in relationship
one should leave without comprise and its high time students take note on what
to put their energy on also learn that even games have rules to make playing
fun!
Exactly right points,,so sad though,,😭😭
ReplyDeleteyes it is
DeleteYou right but the main reason as to why deaths are reported in love triangles is because boys or rather men do suffer hurt breaks the most as compared to ladies.. this has made men endulg into painful reasolutions to their problems of heart breaks and thus death is seen ..
ReplyDeleteeverything has turned now and everyone suffers not only the male gender relationships in campus are now set goals which is wrong
DeletePeople only want to learn from experience and not advice , , so sad
ReplyDeleteExactly 💯
DeleteI think its time for people to focus on themselves and stop caring for those who don't care about them
ReplyDeleteYou've said it
DeleteWhy learn from an experience in which you would have avoided?
ReplyDeletethat's what we fail to understand
DeleteOpen your heart, as well as your mind and eyes.
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and that's all👌
DeleteIt only takes a bold and wise individual to fully understand..what it really takes to get involved with someone as many understand it by using the word being in a relationship......youths should understand that it's never wise to learn from ones mistake
ReplyDeleteIf not interested in participating in such activities then there's is much to do than hurting one's present and future life🦋
yeah students should get this
DeleteIt's time students come back into their senses
ReplyDeleteNice article 👍
ReplyDeleteWell said💯🔥
ReplyDeleteYou Just said it
ReplyDeleteThe worst thing is that people don't take advices they just only want to experience first
ReplyDeleteCurrent parenting don't prepare/teach the youth, so they end learning from experience
ReplyDeleteyeah
DeleteBest article, experience is the best to them but parents should take responsibility to teach the youths
ReplyDeleteAlways leave without compromise👏
ReplyDeleteEven games have rules to make playing fun.
ReplyDeleteI love this.
You just gained a fan.
thanks
DeleteMost campus students often fall in a "toxic relationship" only because of the urge of wanting to experience new things, rather than taking time to understand what a relationship or a partner needs!
ReplyDeleteWell said
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